Jesus our lord and savior

Jesus our lord and savior

Sunday, October 28, 2012

Affection and Affirmation



by Charles R. Swindoll

The father of the righteous
will greatly rejoice, and he who sires
a wise son will be glad in him.
Proverbs 23:24

To you who bear the name "Dad," I cannot impress upon you enough how imperative it is that we show our affection.

We can do that in two ways. First, we affirm who our child is; and second, we appreciate what our child does. This twofold assurance, however, must be given in more than words. Affection---the nonverbal communication of closeness---is among the most important experiences we share with our children. . . .

Unaffectionate dads, without ever wishing to do so, can trigger a daughter's promiscuity. All this leads me to write with a great deal of passion, dads, don't hold back your affection!

Demonstrate your feelings of love and acceptance to both sons and daughters. . . . They will love you for it. And, more importantly, they will emulate your example when God gives them a family of their own.

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